distance that make us!

Do you ever wonder why you shout to other people in anger? And why you shout to others when you are upset? I am sure you do so because you are losing your calm. But you are shouting to others even they are next to you? Is that stupid when you shout to people next to you even you know that they are not deaf. Isn't it possible to speak to them with a soft voice? I am sure you are not stupid right? But don't worry because i am also shout to others when i am angry. Hahaha.  Let me tell you fact is when two people are angry to each other, their hearts are are in distance away. To cover the distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the louder they will have to shout to each other through that great distance. But what happen to people who fall in love? They don't shout to each other but talk softly. Do you ever wondering why? Hehe. It is because their hearts are very close. The distance is very small. They no need to shout at each others and they only need to whisper when they love each other even more as their hearts getting more closer. Finally they do not even need to whisper. They only look at each other, that's all! That is how close two people when they love each other. Aaauuuwww! And that is the right way for husband and wife communicate. Please don't shout at your wife eh. Just look and whisper to them.  An advise from a single man to married man out there. Hahaha. Last but not least, when you argue, please do not let your hearts get distant or say words that distance each other even more, or there may come a day when the distance is so great you will not find the path back to each other. Think about it mates!